Dear Thomas, I am
very excited to guide you through your Relationship Personality
Profile—which is based on the numerology of your birth name and
birth date.
For the past forty years, I
have counseled thousands of clients. Typically the two main areas in
which people seem to get stuck are career and love. Therefore, I
decided to create this relationship profile to focus directly on your
personality as it relates to others. This profile identifies your
tendencies, traits, strengths, and certain weaknesses, in order to
help you understand yourself and your relationships.
You may wish to highlight
the parts of the descriptions that immediately ring true for you.
You may want to reflect on the descriptions which don't seem to fit.
Try asking others if they think the descriptions fit you in their own
experiences of being with you. Perhaps a discussion will reveal a
little more of how others see you and the impact you make.
May you meet good people,
find the love and connection you desire, and the fulfillment of your
spiritual purpose.
Carol Adrienne
Author of The Purpose of Your Life, The Numerology Kit and
The Celestine Prophecy Experiential Guide.
Sensitive, intense, compelling, and friendly. Thomas, your
charismatic and social first letter T draws people like a magnet.
Most definitely
a people-person, you love a good time, and feel downcast if you don't
have plans to meet friends soon. You come across as optimistic
(with a tinge of self-deprecating sarcasm), jovial, entertaining
and not overly high-maintenance, usually being willing to go along
with the crowd. You thrive on being the center of attention and have
backlogs of amusing stories.
With a pronounced esthetic and love of “looking good,” you
have a range of clothes for different occasions from romantic and
flashy to retro and sporty. As a T male, you may enjoy wearing linen
shirts, soft terrycloth spa robes, graphic T's, or jeans
with sport coat and tie. At home, it's shorts if possible.
Female T's also keep a range of sexy
blouses, long skirts, skinny jeans, and active wear for
the gym or yoga. T's seek to seduce through the eyes.
If feeling insecure.
You tend to cover a bad moment with a quick apology or too much
talking—maybe even silly jokes. For you more than most, not being
accepted is akin to agony. If attempting to get back into someone's
good graces, you naturally turn to sweet talking, self-deprecation,
and flattery.
FIRST IMPULSE
(first vowel)
Thomas, the first impulse of your first vowel “O”
is: To think about future consequences.
To counsel. To provide care and assistance.
Your natural instinct is restrained and sympathetic.
You look for the best solution for all and for the long run. If O is
also the first letter of your first name, you may have an especially
paternalistic or maternalistic approach to others.
Friends may tease you a bit about your
careful, calm approach, but you are one person they feel they could
always turn to if need be. Always on the alert to guide, correct, or
provide, you have a knack for diagnosis. Your mind is akin to a
computer scanning through theories and info, searching for methods
that you can apply to issues or problems.
You take pride in never letting down a
friend, but can sometimes be secretly critical of those who do not
pull their own weight. Loyal and deeply responsible, you will easily
sacrifice for those you love. You believe in demonstrating love by
actions rather than words. If your O is combined with another vowel,
you may have trouble understanding others or clearly expressing your
thoughts.
Possible pitfalls in relationship: Opinionated. A
need to be “right' and to
do what's right keeps you a little tightly strung. A
philosopher at heart and attuned to the world's ills, you
often feel it's your duty to enlighten others about
how things could be better. Old-fashioned.
You are not convinced that “new” is better. If
you have many O's in your name, you may be slow to make decisions.
Closed. If uncertain or insecure, you retreat
into your shell, or are reluctant to share
personal information, or make decisions. Overworked.
A drive to meet obligations or challenging circumstances could cause
you to overlook your own needs. You could safely marry someone
like yourself, but you might ultimately have more fun choosing a
partner who is independent, forward-thinking, and who keeps you on
your toes.
Day of Birth
Your Day of Birth, Thomas,
highlights particular qualities that come across in your approach to
others—both strengths and weaknesses.
3
Top Strength: Vitality. Thomas, as an upbeat and enthusiastic person, you enjoy immersing
yourself in various scenarios—up to the point that you could
start to feel taken advantage of. You are happiest with a
good-looking, flexible partner, who doesn't question your every move.
You tend to think, “Live and let live.” However, when
someone close to you seems to be screwing up, you become more
critical and directive. Possible Relationship Issues:
Jealousy. Possessiveness. Extravagance or debt.
A battle of wills, causing you to take a stern, parental attitude.
Procrastination or lateness. Key: Discuss plans and goals
realistically, rather than assuming that you both are on the same
page.
And now,
Thomas, let's see how your full month, day, and year of birth
describes your natural personality—to understand why and how
you interact with others as you do, and how others see you.
Nineteen/One Birthpath
Your natural personality is: A
reluctant leader. An independent thinker. Active. Subtly witty.
Cerebral. Innovative. Original. Somewhat perfectionistic.
Under stress you may become:
Uncertain about your real goals. Reluctant to step into a leadership
position, overly-modest, indecisive, prone to second-guessing
yourself, and sensitive to criticism.
As a Nineteen/One, Thomas, your
Birthpath carries a karmic purpose—to learn to believe in
yourself and to take positive action when integrity is in question.
One of your life tasks is to be able to face public scrutiny without
fearing you will be judged inadequate. Your karmic number reminds you
(subconsciously) that in a past life you may have abused your
position and power, or suffered at the hands of a crowd. In this
lifetime you may find yourself thrust into leadership roles, despite
not feeling ready. In a relationship, you may choose someone who
likes the front place role so you can hide a little bit.
Honor and integrity are all-important.
You unconsciously seek to avoid any risk of public disapproval, or
are fearful of making a mistake that would affect others. However,
you easily stand up for the rights of others—especially your
spouse and offspring. In a relationship you may lead from behind.
DOB Harmony Rating for Nineteen Birthpath
Harmony Rating
Birthdate of mate
Easiest
8, 12, 17, 20, 22, 23, 26, 30, 31
Possibly challenging
1, 2, 7, 9, 14, 16, 19, 25, 29
Heart's Desire
So far, Thomas, we have seen the first impression you make, your
first impulse in a situation, and your strengths and personality
traits. Now let's take a look at what you want to do,
what you desire. We call this your Heart's Desire number.
Nine Heart's Desire
What makes your heart sing:
Love. You
are one of the lovers of the Universe. At times a cosmic sense of
joy and connection floods your being.
Making a difference. Tragedy
and injustice fuel your desire to help, educate, and give back to
others.
Connection to art, beauty, music,
and literature. Your soul craves to be inspired and uplifted.
Opportunities to travel, learn, and serve. You could be happy
working in the Peace Corps, running a mission in Africa, or educating
girls in the Himalayas.
What your heart seeks in relationship:
Passion. Your soul is nourished with
color, drama, and emotional intensity. A
natural poet, you sometimes feel in love with love.
Understanding. Your goals can
be vast—a bit impractical to some—but you need a
supportive mate who believes in you.
Spiritual depth. You can never be happy with a
mate who does not have his or her own spiritual roots.
Options. You truly believe that anything is possible. You
do best with a mate who is patient during
the times when it's hard for
you to make a decision.
Support for your passions, interests, and goals. Your
strengths lie in inspiring people to new awareness. What
you hope for in a mate is someone who shares your enthusiasms and who
will also lend a practical hand.
Finally,
Thomas, we take a look at the number of your Destiny, as
defined by your birth name. Here is what your Destiny highlights
and indicates in terms of
your relationships.
Four Destiny
The key traits necessary for you to carry out your
Four Destiny are tenacity, endurance, practicality,
and common-sense. Your Destiny is to build
and maintain the products, services, and systems that keep humanity
healthy, fed, clothed, housed, secure, and
educated. With your Four Destiny, marriage is extremely likely because of your
need for stability, and your capacities for
deep love, caring and providing for others.
Romantic type: Dependable. With a
Four Destiny marriage is almost a given. In
some cases you marry your childhood sweetheart.
Otherwise, you may wait until finances or career are
in order before tying the knot. Engagements could be long.
Family life: Sometimes stressful, but with strong
bonds. Often both you
and your mate are working hard, and children need
to pitch in. Grandparents may be an important factor in this family.
With your Four Destiny, you tend to be happiest with a mate who is a
little more flexible than yourself, but who has similar life values.
Possible relationship issues: Resistance to change. Financial problems.
Especially if born on the 4th, 13th, or 22nd,
be aware of a tendency to nag or try to
"improve" your partner. If your
parents did not outwardly express affection, you may also be
reserved in public displays of affection; you
prefer to show your love with practical actions.
Since deception is repugnant to you, extramarital
affairs on your side are unlikely.
Other Reports by Carol Adrienne
If you enjoyed reading
Carol Adrienne's Relationship Personality Profile,
continue discovering the full
destiny and timing of your numerology life plan by ordering one or
more of the following charts:
Primary Life Chart
The Primary Life Chart, about 28 pages
long, describes your basic nature, talents, what you have come to do,
and what makes you happy. The chart gives you the ages you will be
when your four major periods of life occur, and what those periods
predict. The monthly calender for the year helps you to stay on
track.
Extended Forecast
These Forecasts extend the forecast
found in your Primary Life Chart. (Once you have ordered your Primary
Life Chart, you do not need to order it again.)
Secondary Name Chart
This chart describes a married
name, a name changed by personal choice, or a name given at adoption.
Private Consultations with Carol Adrienne
LIFE PLAN CONSULTATION
If you feel in need of a career change,
are discouraged, or are wondering what's next, a consultation is a
chance to focus on your current situation and bring issues out into
the open. This session is a chance to rethink, regroup and validate
your intuitive feelings. Carol provides a clear interpretation of
where you've been, where you are and where you are headed. Specific
issues are explored in-depth. An audio recording is sent after the
session for further reflection.
NAME CHANGE CONSULTATION
If you are
thinking of changing your name, be sure you understand how the name
will affect your life according to the numbers. The session includes
a review of your original life plan and analyzes name possibilities
to find the one that has the best potential to attract the life you
want.
BUSINESS NAME OR DOMAIN NAME CONSULTATION
Let Carol Adrienne help you
analyze the best choices for your business or domain name, and
identify good launch dates.
ONE-HOUR COACHING SESSIONS
Follow up with Carol
whenever you want to get an update on your number aspects or explore
the next step. Carol will help you identify your best options,
possible challenges, and help you brainstorm on seeming blocks.
Carol's Web site has many
free offerings, from a daily Personal Day app, weekly numerology
forecast, Purpose Tracker inspirational messages and more.
